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عاهات وتقاليد

بقلم : سليمان محمد

لقد تربيت ونشأت فى بيئه ريفيه ولكن سرعان ما انتقلت الى المدينه وانا فى سن الرابعه عشر من عمرى وتطلعت الى عيشه المدينه التى تختلف عن الارياف وعاداتها وتقاليدها . واحببت عادات وتقاليد المدينه اكثر فقررت ان اكتب ” عاهات وتقاليد الارياف ”

عاهات وتقاليد المجتمع الريفي ، عندما ننظر الى المجتمع الريفي بعين الحقيقه والمساواه والعدل بعيدا عن العواطف سنجد كثيرا من السلبيات تحت مسمى ” عادات وتقاليد ” والحقيقه اننى لا اعرف طريق لهذه العادات والتقاليد سوء ” هذا ما وجدنا عليه ابائنا ” .

فلننظر مثلا الى المجتمع الريفي فى ارق المشاعر الا وهى ” الحب والزوج ” والحقيقه كلما خطر ببالى موضوع الزواج اتذكر اغنيه ريفيه قديمه كنت اسمعها وانا طفل فى بعض الافراح ” مبروك عليك ياللى دفعت فلوسها ” فموضوع الزواج اشبه بالسلعه التى تباع وتشترى. مساومات كثيره تحدث بين اهل العريس واهل العروسه بخصوص المهر والذهب والشقه والسياره وفى النهايه يقول لأهل العريس ” احنا بنشترى راجل ” والحقيقه انهم يبيعوا ابنتهم لمن هو اكثر مالا . ولذلك نجد جواز صغار السن منتشر فى الريف ومن الممكن ان تتزوج بنت الخامسه عشر عاما ب ابن الثلاثين عاما او اكثر بحجه ان هذا هو من يصونه والحقيقه ان هذا هو الوحيد الذى يستطيع ان يشتريها . ولكنى ما زالت لا اعرف هل هذا المجتمع حكرا على المشاعر ام ان الثقافه حكرا على الانسانيه ؟ ولكن عندما ننظر الى المجتمع المتحضر نجد انه لايمكن لفتاه ان تتزوج من شاب لا تحبه او اكبر منها سننا . ومن العادى ان يبداوء حياتهم فى شقه بالايجار ، فهم يؤمنوا بان الزواج رباط مقدس ولا يمكن للماليات او المديات ان تؤثر على هذا الرباط .

وعند النظر اليهم وهم فى حاله سعاده نجد الاحتفالات بطريقه غريبه فأنا اعتقد انهم لا يؤمنون بأن السعاده احساس داخلى ، بل لابد من اطلاق الاعياره الناريه والزغاريط المزعجه ، والحقيقه انا لا اعرف من اين ءاتوا بها وما هو اصلها . ومن قال انها تعبر عن السعاده ؟ ولكن عندما ننظر الى المجتمع المتحضر الذى يؤمن كل الايمان بأن السعاده احساس يفرحون ولكنى اعتقد انهم يفهمون انه لا حاجه الى فعل مثل هذه الاشياء .

واذا نظرنا الى المجتمع الريفي فى حاله الحزن فسنجد كل ماتشمئز منه الطباع السليمه والعقول المستنيره من ندب وصوت عالى وغالبا ما يكون هذا تمثيل ليتبين للجميع حجم البلاء و المصيبه التى نزلت بهم . بخلاف المجتمع المتحضر الذى لطالما امن بان السعاده احساس فى القلب فهو ايضا يؤمن بأن الحزن فى القلب . فهم يحزنون ولكن على طريقه ” ان القلب ليحزن وان العين لتدمع ” .

وعند النظر الى المجتمع الريفي فى حالاته الطبيعيه فلا اجد سوء القيل والقال والغيبه والنميمه والقصص التى بأتت حديث القرى . والحقيقه اننى انتقد المجتمع الريفى فى بعض عاداته لحبي الشديد له وتمسكى به فانا اتمنى الا توجد مثل هذا السلبيات فى مجتمع يربي ويخرج لنا علماء واساتذه فى جميع المجالات المختلفه.

 

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